TEMPER

In this world different kind of people exists, different people persist different nature, different attitude, different thinking and different TEMPER and So on…, much of features of a human being are understandable depending upon their criteria of existence either or condition/ circumstances around them, but what is temper?... what all circumstances make a person to lose same in both happiness and sadness.

Biologically verifying the definition for Temper can be defined as the Human body condition under which the Heart beat of person loosing temper increased up with blood flow pressure along with the stress over the brain certain parts resulting some time Physical damage to the human body.

Psychologically, Human Temper is a state of psychological equilibrium obtained when tension or a drive has been reduced or eliminated.

Above are two definitions for human nature part as TEMPER. But do we agree with definition’s … above mentioned definitions are just providing Human Body condition details only either straight forward or indirectly. Then what exactly the temper is…

Well as per my own analysis, and by view of people around me, I am a very short tempered guy.. But sometime I ask myself do I m? It’s always hard to analyze the same for myself but still tried… 1^st lets move with people view.

When I disagree with anybodies or a group of people view regarding something or any matter either interesting or monotonous, and at the same moment when my voice pitch rises up while discussion the people start saying please do not lose your temper…be calm and so on….

Now move to another condition, if I love someone and care for him/her beyond their expectation and in influence of same I asked them something genuine to do to protect them from people just look for their interest only in them, and the same moment my voice pitch again increases then I was asked to keep in control my temper…

Now consider another case, I am in a party enjoying and laughing loudly a talking with high pitch, but this time nobody says you are loosing your temper or blah blah…

Now the same way consider another case an doctor treating a patient and shouts on other staff with emergency to take action or provide support not supposed to be losing temper, vice versa to get treated by doctor in my physically worst conditions without any high heart beat and blood pressure, doesn’t considered as loosening of temper...

Now if all above mentioned cases analyzed and compared with Biological and Psychological definitions, none of them satisfied completely. Then how we can define the LOOSENING OF TEMPER?

Then loosening of temper can be defined as Life and its circumstances that can be favorable or disappointing to you at any moment of life moving with curiosity always to achieve all happiness in life somehow…