Saturday 10 November 2012

GREED IS GREAT


GREED is something always assumes to be bad for human being. But is it true… the facts are really surprising if studied up. Let’s start with the birth of a baby the basic stage of any human being. When cell is deployed in mother womb. It’s required much care to be taken for 9 month. For 9 month the mother with her complete dedication cares for her unborn baby. Now here the word came in scenario CARE. Mother is caring for what? For her love? Yes it’s very true it’s her love only for the unborn child but a form of GREED to have best child ever in world as her son/daughter. But people call it love another other form of GREED. Even the unborn child that need to care up is having GREED to get maximum ingredient from her mother body to survive and come in this world but that is assume to be the unborn child body requirement to grow as per medical facts. But the fact is the requirement of unborn child to reach next level of human growth is another form of GREED nothing else.

After reaching to 2nd level of new born baby to a mother and a family. The next form of GREED comes again in two formations. 1st love of every member of family and mother toward new born child. And other the need of milk feed by new born child from mother. In scenario mother feeds the child with complete dedication that actually is love. But the child is getting feed up with every few hours requirement of more and more milk even mother sometime get weaker and weaker but try to always feed her child utterly. This is another form of GREED in just a child form of human being.

No Child starts growing and stops feeding on mothers milk. Not just cause of the fact that milk from mother can’t be available any more but due to the child growth rate, the body requires more and more nutrients that could only be full-filled by other means of food ingredients. That is also a kind of GREED of body to grow.
Later with growing stages of child i.e.  a form of human being, starts moving to school. There he/she learns much things to become a well-mannered/behaved person in society. Here lies another form of GREED in all new faces like getting more marks in subjects, money for day to day small requirements, games, toys etc. like much of forms of wishes that is nothing but GREED…. WISH IS GREED.

Moving to next stage of life from school to College, the GREED form again changes up, like wishes for more money in comparison to child hood, for own reputation in society show-off, for girl-friend/boy-friend, for first sight love, for marks allocation etc. the cycle keeps moving in somewhat unknown facts known to be GREED.

Moving to next stage of life, person starts earning from different resources either job/business etc. No the Most common form of greed comes into existence i.e. race to earn more and more money every moment of life. Here in this stage everybody seems to be equally GREEDY for more and more money. Some are able to full-fill there CUP of GREED to money to maximum, some just the base line of this same cup. But everybody in this race was seems to be holding the same cup known to be MONEY-THE GREAT CUP OF GREED.

After running most of time in life holding the great cup of greed, human being enters to last stage of life i.e. death, while dying also he/she wishes the good luck for next upcoming generation with large cup of greed to money in hands and most important PEACEFULL DEATH requesting every last moment same to god. i.e. another form of GREED even in last moments of life.

SO THE MOST IMPORTANT FACT LAYING IN HUMAN BEING LIFE THAT SEEMS TO BE UN-IDENTIFIED BUT MOST IMPRESSIVE IS GREED…SO WHY WE CAN’T SAY---- GREED IS GREAT…

Monday 15 October 2012

Last 12 Hours of Your Life



Everybody in life want to do something that makes him/her to be remembered always even got free from this world. But how can be same achieved? Never come to know.

There was a guy named to be REX, worked so hard always that he reached to the heights of success. He always had tendency to try not to leave any work in pending. And was a good manager to manage between office and Family.

This was another wake up morning to him like other days. He stands up on his foot, wears his slippers and went to balcony, feeling the smell of morning stretching his hands wide enough to make him feel the best of best always. For him it’s not just another day, it was always a new day to start and end with feeling of happiness within him with satisfaction of thanks giving to god for a wonderful day. Then he got fresh’s up and spend few mints with his family.

His family was wonderful and just perfect to enjoy every moment with complete feeling of happiness within them with him. He got ready and left for his routine office. Reaching office… Hi Elena, looking gorgeous as always, his secretory—Elena-- smiled very sweetly and replied thanks dear, you too looking handsome. And he went inside his chamber. There he looked his table and felt the feeling of success in his whole life and the hard-work he did all his life to achieve the status.

He has started his career 5 years ago, and with his hardworking style with not leaving any work pending attitude, today he achieved to be chairman of his own ownership company. He is very well and his staffs are always happy with tech and management skills. And in continuation much help to everyone at personal level too.

It was 12 Noon, he got a call, he looked the no. appearing on his cell-phone, find up his doctor calling him, he picked the call smilingly and asked doctor…Hi Doc, how are you, how’s going on. Doctor from other side replied.. I am fine, doing great. But his voice was trembling, trying to keep the tone match with normal as always with REX. But Rex identified that shuddering in hid DOC voice and said I think something is not good Doc, is everything is alright. Doctor remains quiet for some time and then said… I don’t know how to start or say to you. REX- common doc, tell me now… it can’t be worse than working 20 hrs. Daily in my struggling years and passed up the smile with enthusiasm. Doctor from other side replied. Your reports came to me for routine check-up you came to me yesterday, it intimated you are having last 12 hrs. Of your life to survive. REX-You must be joking.. DOC—NO I am serious…REX—hold on Doc, and he went to a Silence, after few mints he replied, request you please keep this with you only DOC and thanks for information you shared to me and drop the call.

He looked at hanging watch in front of him, it was exhibiting 12:20 PM, he just keep looking the watch for next few mints and the started working as of other normal day. He finished up his work today at 4:30 PM, scheduling two mails in his mail system to dispatch Night 12:00 AM. And called his  secretary to send an invitation to few of nearby colleagues and friend to have a get together in evening at his Home. He informed same to his family member’s to keep things ready accordingly. It was normal to his family members as he keep doing the same generally. Then he left office at 5:00 PM  as usual of normal days.

He reached to a flower shop, picked up a bookie of red rose from there with wonderful fragrance and asked to pack in a box then he went to Medical store to pick medicine for his mother and father. Then he went to a shop, and bought little stuff for his other family members. And at last he went to a photographer shop. He asked photographer to pick his picture of life time that after him also whenever people look his Photograph he should look like living always. Photographer smiled and said you are quiet handsome guy, I will have the best one for you. He handover his snap in a packed box and REX went back to his home. He was feeling much tired, he looked at watch it was 6:30 PM. He smiled and set down to take rest for few mints. His sister in law came to him, are you ok… yeah yeah.. I am, just got little hectic schedule whole day. What about party arrangements. Is it done… she replied, Yeah it’s done.. REX—Good…Let’s Rock n Roll. 

He Got ready with his most favorite wear.. TUXEDO, Complete black with RED ribbon on waist and White shirt with up-collar lift, making him look like ready to marry someone he loves much. Guest start coming, everyone was commenting over his wonderful look… he looks great!!!. Among all guests, Doctor was also there. Hi Doc, what a wonderful day this is, have belly filled with oldest wine and enjoy. The red wine was looking like blood of REX to DOC, he wants to do anything for him to keep him alive but he was not more than GOD, he always believed in. REX said again DOC please smiles, for me not for all here. DOC understood him the way he was dealing with other people and his family members, he dint told about his condition to anyone. Doctor requested him, today can I live here only with you. REX replied simply OK.

It’s 11-O-Clock, everybody in party getting tired, started leaving and to everybody REX replying thanks for coming to my celebrations of life time and in reply to him everybody was smiling and leaving the party place. While everybody was leaving, he asked to stay his best friend and business partner and gift him a box with condition you will open it after you got my mail to open the same.

Again REX looks to the Watch on the wall it was 11:15 PM, last 45 mints left with him. He called every member of his family to see last time. Everybody assembled and starts chatting with him, he gifted everybody something and at last a box with promise from everyone open it after 12:30 Today midnight. Doctor was sitting beside him, looking to him with surprise how could he be so calm knowing his death timing approx. He looked toward the Doctor and hand over him a letter with promise to open at 12:30 AM midnight only.

Again he looked towards the watch on wall, it was pretending 11:45 PM, he start feeling much uncomfortable, asked his niece to get a glass of water and his laptop, and murmured  to doctor, please  hold on me for some time more. Time was running like hell, his niece get the water and laptop. With trembling hands he drinks the water and switch on his laptop and fired the two last mails he drafted earlier in evening.

His condition becomes worst and everybody nearby him was crying and shouting---Doctor please look, what happened to him, Doctor just remained standing quietly looking him dying. And he died with last smile on his lips.



First mail comes to DOCTOR,
Hi DOC,

Thanks for pre-information to make my even last day the most wonderful. I have enjoyed lots of things always wanted and even wonderful death with my family member and best friends around me.
DOC asked DAD please open the box….

REX’s DAD, open the box, in that they found his lifetime most wonderful Photograph, like he said to photographer, looks much alive than ever with a letter. In Letter

DAD and my dear Family member, never think I am parted from you people, whenever you look this photograph, give me the same smile you use to give every morning to me. And his DAD looks at picture with same smile along tears in eyes, knowing never will find him again.

Second mail comes to his best Friend

Hi Dear,

Well when you are reading this I am not alive any more, but don’t be dis-hearted. You did much of things for me in my life as best friend, Just open the box for me, as a last favor to me.

There were two envelopes with RED flower bookie, 1st envelop:

From Today onwards you are the owner and chairman of this company with profit sharing with my family conditions attached in annexure. Also Elena has been appointed as board member for her services to me.

2nd Envelop:

Congratulations with RED flower, I am not there to hug you for your new achievement, but I know you will be more successful guy then me. Just take care and keep smiling.
Reading the same his friend just left sitting beside his dead body, starring REX, that he will stand up just now and hug him.

BUT REX HAD BECOME SILENT FOR EVER, LEAVING SMILES FOR OTHERS…THATS WHAT LAST 12 HOURS OF LIFE , MORE THAN EVERY MOMENT OF LIFE TO ENJOY. SO LIFE IS ALWAYS TO ENJOY, NEVER GIVE WITH ANY UP’s & DOWN’s OF LIFE, AS IN EVERY ACT OF YOU, AND YOU ARE PUTTING SMILE ON SOMEONE FACE EITHER UNSWERVINGLY OR TORTUOUSLY.

Thursday 22 December 2011

TEMPER


In this world different kind of people exists, different people persist different nature, different attitude, different thinking and different TEMPER and So on…, much of features of a human being are understandable depending upon their criteria of existence either or condition/ circumstances around them, but what is temper?... what all circumstances make a person to lose same in both happiness and sadness.

Biologically verifying the definition for Temper can be defined as the Human body condition under which the Heart beat of person loosing temper increased up with blood flow pressure along with the stress over the brain certain parts resulting some time Physical damage to the human body.

Psychologically, Human Temper is a state of psychological equilibrium obtained when tension or a drive has been reduced or eliminated.

Above are two definitions for human nature part as TEMPER. But do we agree with definition’s … above mentioned definitions are just providing Human Body condition details only either straight forward or indirectly. Then what exactly the temper is…

Well as per my own analysis, and by view of people around me, I am a very short tempered guy.. But sometime I ask myself do I m? It’s always hard to analyze the same for myself but still tried… 1st lets move with people view.

When I disagree with anybodies or a group of people view regarding something or any matter either interesting or monotonous, and at the same moment when my voice pitch rises up while discussion the people start saying please do not lose your temper…be calm and so on….

Now move to another condition, if I love someone and care for him/her beyond their expectation and in influence of same I asked them something genuine to do to protect them from people just look for their interest only in them, and the same moment my voice pitch again increases then I was asked to keep in control my temper…

Now consider another case, I am in a party enjoying and laughing loudly a talking with high pitch, but this time nobody says you are loosing your temper or blah blah…

Now the same way consider another case an doctor treating a patient and shouts on other staff with emergency to take action or provide support not supposed to be losing temper, vice versa to get treated by doctor in my physically worst conditions without any high heart beat and blood pressure, doesn’t considered as loosening of temper...

Now if all above mentioned cases analyzed and compared with Biological and Psychological definitions, none of them satisfied completely. Then how we can define the LOOSENING OF TEMPER?

Then loosening of temper can be defined as Life and its circumstances that can be favorable or disappointing to you at any moment of life moving with curiosity always to achieve all happiness in life somehow…